You're doing everything right. It still isn't working.
You’re not lazy. You’re not unfocused. You're successful at solving problems.
But there's one area that won't move. You’ve tried everything and still, nothing changes.
So you start to wonder: Maybe it’s me. Maybe I’m just not meant to have this.
It isn’t. There's something else going on.
Why does it come easily in one part of
your life, and never in another?
Look at the areas where things work. Same you. Same intelligence, same discipline, same willingness to do hard things.
Now look at the area that's stuck. Same person. Different result.
That's the part that doesn't add up, and it's the most important clue you have. Because whatever is stopping you, it isn't your capability, it isn't your effort, and it certainly isn't your luck. Something else is running.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct
your life and you will call it fate.” — Carl Jung
He competed for his country.
He couldn't grow his business.
A commercial real estate agent came to see me. He'd set his yearly goals, worked hard at them, and watched them slip, year after year.
He was also on the national sailing team.
Same man. Elite at one thing. Stuck at the other.
When we looked underneath, here's what we found. When he was a boy, his friends went off to a private school, and he didn't get in. He was young enough to draw the only conclusion a boy
draws: I'm not someone who succeeds. That story attached itself to school, and then it followed him into his work.
Sailing had no such story attached to it. So in sailing, he was free.
We cleared the story. He reached his full-year goal in six months.
Already know where you’re stuck?
Your subconscious isn't sabotaging you.
It's protecting you.
Here's what almost nobody is told: the part of you that's holding the brake isn't broken, and it isn't working against you. It's a fierce protector.
At some point it learned that having this thing would cost you something. Being disliked. Being rejected. Hurting someone. Losing yourself. So it decided that getting it wasn't safe, and it has
been quietly keeping you from it ever since, with far more power than your conscious intentions have.
Which means this was never a willpower problem.
That's why trying harder didn't work. You were pressing the accelerator with the brake on.
This isn’t therapy. It’s a procedure.
A belief like that doesn't sit in your thinking. It sits in your body. You can know an idea is irrational and still feel yourself tighten when you get close to it. Seeing it is where this starts — but
seeing it isn't what changes it, which is why understanding your pattern, sometimes for years, so rarely moves anything.
Because the body responds, I can test for a belief directly. That's what makes this fast. Finding one and dissolving it takes about ten to fifteen minutes.
You have more than one. They come in layers, and we work through them. But you don't have to reach the bottom before things change, and in this work the change shows up early, every time. You feel different. You stop holding yourself back. You are more confident, and confidence is what produces the results you came for.
No years of talking about the past. We find what's there, we clear it, and you go and live.
First, we find out what you actually want.
Clearing the brake is half of this work. The other half comes first.
Most people are chasing a target that was handed to them. A number their industry respects. A life their family expected. A version of success that looked right at twenty-five and has been
running on momentum ever since. When you're driving hard at a goal that isn't truly yours, part of you will keep refusing, and it will be right to.
So before we clear anything, we get clear. Not from your thoughts, which argue, and not from your emotions, which change by the hour, but from your core values — what genuinely matters to you when nobody is watching and nobody has an opinion.
Once you know that, two things happen. You stop spending your life on things that were never going to satisfy you. And every block we clear has somewhere real to point.
Clarity, then freedom. That's the whole method.
The Missing Link
When capable people can't get what they clearly want, it's rarely for lack of effort. A part of them learned long ago that having it isn't safe.
Once that part is cleared, it comes faster than effort alone ever could.
"People who have done a lot of work, who have tried everything,
this is the missing link. The thing they have been looking for."
— Jack Canfield
One hidden “no.”
Four lives that look nothing alike.
1.
A wrestler who couldn't break through at the provincial level. She'd been winning since she was a girl — including against her younger brother, who didn't like losing to a girl. She learned early that beating someone can cost you. So on the mat, against opponents who'd trained longer than she had, something in her found it unfair to win. We cleared it. She went on to become a Canadian champion and then a World University champion.
2.
A real estate agent who couldn't make ends meet, no matter how hard she worked, until she saw that a spiritual person is allowed to deserve money. She quadrupled her revenue that year.
3.
Two partners in a business grossing $3 million a year, carrying $600,000 in debt with nothing saved, because underneath, neither of them believed they deserved to keep it. Cards cleared in six months. Line of credit within the year. Three years later they bought their own building instead of renting.
4.
A wife who wanted to be close to her husband again and couldn't understand why she'd shut down, until we found what was
actually there: he'd had a stroke three years earlier, and a part of her was terrified of loving him fully and then losing him. He was carrying the mirror image of the same fear.
Different arenas. The same mechanism, every time.
Where is it stuck for you?
The work is the same. What it’s pointed at is yours to choose.
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Athletes You train harder than anyone. On the day that counts, something you can't name takes half a second from you. Elite Coaching for Athletes
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I've been doing this since 1989.
I’m Dr. Lise Janelle.
I spent twenty years as a chiropractor before this work became my life's work, and I've since sat in more than 126,000 coaching sessions.
In that time I developed the Heart Freedom Method: a step-by-step way to find the exact belief that's holding the brake, and to clear it. Not to talk about it. To clear it.
I'm co-authoring UNSTUCK: The Missing Link to Getting What You Want Faster with Jack Canfield.
I work with a small number of one-to-one clients, and I choose them carefully. I'm looking for people whose results reach past themselves, people whose work, family, team or sport is better when they're unblocked.
You've already done the hard part.
If you've read this far, some part of you recognizes what I'm describing.
The call is a conversation, not a pitch. We'll look at where you're stuck, and I'll tell you honestly whether this is the work that will move it.
Already know where you’re stuck?